Some sexologists recommend consuming alcohol in small doses before sex. In their opinion, "hot blood" enhances attraction, liberates us and prolongs sexual intercourse.
From a physiological point of view, this can be explained by the fact that during sex the body burns glucose stores from the liver and alcohol from the colon. Therefore, if your sex will last longer than 15 minutes, doctors recommend that you eat something sweet beforehand. Or, for example, drink wine. Alcohol is absorbed into the blood faster than sugar, giving strength.
However, it is important to find that same golden mean, because if you take a little more on your chest, you can start the reverse process and then no one will enjoy sex. Every drink has its own characteristics, so let’s try to figure out which alcohol is better to choose before sex and how it affects gender.
How does alcohol affect potency?
Exactly how much alcohol will affect the functioning of the reproductive system depends on how often and what exactly a man drinks. A small amount of alcohol before sex will not cause much harm and, conversely, will contribute to the relaxation of the nervous system and slightly dampen the sharpness of the nerve endings. Such an effect is necessary in psychogenic disorders, when a person cannot completely relax because he is afraid of failure.
In addition, a small amount of alcohol prevents premature ejaculation, which is due to a slight decrease in receptor sensitivity and the rate of signal transmission to the genital centers. As a result, the relationship lasts longer, but the severity of the sensation decreases slightly. But this effect is only in those cases if alcohol is consumed in very moderate amounts and only occasionally.
If a man "indulges" in alcohol almost every day, the action will be completely different. Ethanol is one of the strongest psychotropic poisons which, if consumed regularly, reduces the sensitivity of serotonin receptors and alters the structure of nerve endings. Spreading through the body along with the blood, alcohol particles penetrate all the internal organs, affecting their structures and causing dysfunction. The same thing happens with the reproductive system. If you consume alcohol regularly, the following will happen for potency:
- libido gradually weakens;
- erection will occasionally occur weaker, even in a sober state;
- followed by the inability to achieve ejaculation.
It should be borne in mind that over time, such symptoms will only intensify. If you do not change your lifestyle and seek professional help, the organs of the reproductive system will never function as before.
Cognac
The effect of an alcoholic on an erection depends on the type of alcohol. Cognac is considered the safest for potency. We are talking only about high-quality drinks, which are produced on the basis of natural raw materials and aged in wooden barrels. If you drink 30 ml of the product before sexual intercourse, it will lead to increased blood circulation and activation of brain centers. As a result, sexual intercourse will be brighter and prolonged.
On a side note!Cognac is not recommended for men who suffer from kidney pathologies and high blood pressure.
Vodka
This type of alcohol will definitely not help to create a romantic atmosphere, but from a medical point of view vodka among alcoholic beverages is the best choice before sex, because we are talking about pure alcohol without chemical additives. Vodka drunkenness comes slowly and lasts a long time. In order not to spoil sexual intercourse after vodka, a man can drink a maximum of 150 g. Constant drinking of vodka is strictly forbidden, because regular consumption a few years later greatly inhibits a man's sexual function.
Wine
Such a type of alcohol as dry red wine has a beneficial effect on human potency. A quality product contains antioxidants and components that stimulate the activity of the digestive tract, and stimulate blood thinning and the elimination of cholesterol. One glass of dry red wine will not have a detrimental effect on potency, and to some extent will even improve it - sex after wine will be bright and emotional.
Beer
Although beer is considered a weak alcohol, it is this beer that has the most negative impact on human reproductive health. This effect is due to the high content of phytoestrogens in the product - plant analogues of female sex hormones. When swallowed, they block the production of the main male hormone testosterone, which significantly reduces potency.
"And you're nothing"
Scientists from the University of Nebraska-Lincoln looked at the circumstances and factors that affect men and how they are objectively assessed by women.
The study involved 49 men aged 20 years. 29 participants in the experiment received two alcoholic beverages, and the others received a placebo (in this case allegedly an alcoholic).
Participants were shown photos of 80 girls, after which they were asked to rate the look and level of attractiveness shown. Eye tracking technology has been used to assess which parts of a woman’s body men are looking at.
An independent commission previously evaluated the women's photographs on how much warmth, good nature, kindness, competence, intelligence, self-confidence and attractiveness they exude.
The results showed that men, drinking, spent less time looking at their faces and focusing more on their figure. Drunk men practically did not notice those that experts rated as "cordial and kind. " Researchers believe these findings will be effective evidence to change the way men see women.
Can I drink alcohol before intercourse?
During numerous studies and experiments, it has been proven that, in order to reduce the risk of dysfunction of the reproductive system, one cannot drink a maximum of 1. 5 tablespoons of alcohol per day. At the same time, most experts advise consuming up to 70 ml of high-quality cognac. It is believed that this drink dilates blood vessels and does not lead to their narrowing after a short time interval, unlike other types of alcohol. Elite cognac serves as a prophylactic agent that prevents the development of pathologies of the cardiovascular system.
On the other hand, it should be borne in mind that frequent consumption of alcohol leads to the formation of defective sperm, because ethyl alcohol penetrates the testicles and has a detrimental effect on the production of male semen. All of this can lead to difficulty conceiving and increase the risk of giving birth to a child with a physical or mental disorder.
Attention!It is allowed to drink small amounts of alcohol before sex to increase potency,but only if the partners do not plan to become parents in the near future.
Underwater rocks
The myth that after a glass or a couple of cocktails on your chest you will get a crazy rush of excitement in people arises thanks to the cinema. After all, there are often scenes where the heroes have fun, drink alcohol, and then indulge in bodily pleasures in a fit of passion. Maybe this works in practice. It is quite natural to experience something like excitement after intoxicating drinks. It's just that it has nothing to do with real desire. First of all, because alcohol is not able to have a good effect on him.
It is worth realizing that even a glass of wine can affect the brain. It changes perception, reduces sensitivity and sometimes even frees the instinct for self-preservation. The more people drink, the more likely they are to be disappointed instead of intimacy. After all, almost every young man in the morning experiences only a sense of shame and does not want to repeat the sad experience. When alcohol is consumed, the assessment of potential partners is also reduced. Appearance and intellectual ability are no longer important. The most important thing is consent to sex. At the same time, both sexes suffer from this alignment.
For girls, such frivolous behavior is fraught with many bad things. It can be casual sex with a person you shouldn’t sleep with (a friend, for example) or even a sad group sex experience. Sometimes it is difficult to call it voluntary intimacy, because some guys can take advantage of the state of a drunken woman of weak will.
The fact is obvious - if you like to occasionally sit in a large company, where you do not know everything well, and at the same time do not control what you drink, then you are in danger. At the same time, it is very difficult to prove that this drunken sex was rape. Therefore, all ladies who somehow care about reputation and health should refrain from drunkenness, it is not clear where and it is not clear with whom.
Guys also don’t shy away from a sad fate. The drunken state in the same way releases all worries of conscience, moral principles and other social anger. There is only one instinct left - to find a partner. And often these mistresses are not the best "variety". The likelihood of getting sexually transmitted diseases from such companions is not small. Is it worth a few minutes of awkward wandering to then set aside a tidy sum for medical treatment?
Definitely not worth it. Plus, don't forget about a moment like pregnancy. And it’s good if the girl has no complaints and solves this problem on her own (although it’s more a matter of male responsibility), but there are those who are able to organize real hell for their "beloved".
All of these shortcomings are not a complete list of how negative alcohol consumption can be before sex. Here you can also add the fact that alcohol lovers lose sensitivity over time. This is especially true for men. Erections will be less frequent, less sticky, and pleasure may not be. And then impotence is not far off and that's it - goodbye to a rich sex life. Of course, this will not happen if you allow yourself to drink a few cocktails or beers once a month. But if it happens with a depressive frequency, it is recommended that you reconsider your bad habits.
Alcoholic sex
For many young people who are just entering their sexual life, sex without alcohol is difficult, which is most often associated with shyness and self-doubt. Many couples consume alcohol before and during sex to relax and let their desires come to light.
In some situations, this approach actually improves the quality of intercourse. But this only happens if high-quality alcohol is consumed and in small quantities. If you consume too much alcohol before intercourse, it can cause not only erection difficulties, but also problems with the onset of orgasm.
In addition, the intensity of contact may not be as strong as "sober". Alcohol like beer is especially detrimental to the quality of sex. In most cases, men and women are not limited to drinking one glass and drinking several cups at once. Because the foam has a strong diuretic effect, it activates the functioning of the urinary system, which increases the need of the partner to go to the toilet, which is extremely inconvenient in intimate moments.
Unnatural permissiveness
Why do people drink so much wine or beer? Why do they go to bars and order nice steamed or iced cocktails? How does a whiskey injection affect the body? The answers to the question are pretty obvious. Alcohol helps many get out of the shell and become much more open to communication. People who can sometimes afford to hang out with friends notice the fact that conversations after a drink become more honest and fun. The person enjoys it, but it's all really only up to a certain point.
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There are those for whom alcohol is a kind of elixir for all their own weaknesses. I drank - and you are already irresistible, sexy and desirable. And in this state it is much easier to acquire non-binding romantic acquaintances. The mechanism of action of alcohol itself is interesting.
It does not change the person himself, it only corrects his perception. And not just him, but everyone around him. Until recently, they could not pay attention to the most ordinary boys or girls, but after a few glasses of wine it seems to them that they can not find a more beautiful life partner. Some people like this illusion, so drinking alcohol becomes regular.
People sometimes drink to simply cheer themselves up. After all, when he gets drunk, the world itself looks friendlier. And if the world is so good, then why not relax and accept the happiness that has fallen on you? As they say, drunk and knee-deep in the sea. But in intimate life, if it is full and healthy, there is no place for simple jokes and current desires. After all, to have fun, you need to be able to concentrate on it. And if consciousness is blurred, it is much harder to do. So it turns out that on the one hand alcohol helps to get rid of discomfort, and on the other hand interferes with achieving orgasm.
Effects of alcohol dependence on male potency
Alcoholism negatively affects the condition of all internal organs and systems, including reproductive function.
Many members of the stronger sex, who have been suffering from alcohol addiction for several years, then face the following problems:
- if ethyl alcohol is constantly present in the body, the veins are in a narrowed state. Due to that, the blood stagnates and does not flow in the appropriate volume to the genitals - the risk of developing prostatitis increases;
- libido decreases, erection worsens or disappears completely;
- regular consumption of alcoholic beverages worsens the nervous condition and leads to depression, which also reduces libido.
In addition, alcohol abuse has a detrimental effect on the liver, heart and other organs, leading to the development of various chronic diseases.
Dangerous connections
A group of scientists from the Canadian Center for Research on Addiction Habits and Their Impact on Mental Health concluded that alcohol consumption often provokes us to have unprotected sex. The more you drink, the greater the readiness.
The experts conducted 12 experiments, during which they divided the participants into two groups: "drunkards" and "teetotalers". Surveys and interviews have unequivocally shown that those who did not drink were more likely to consider contraception. As it turned out, in the group that "drank", it was shown that increasing the concentration of alcohol in the blood by 0. 1 mg / ml increases the readiness for "dangerous" sex by about 5%.
Potency after cessation of alcohol consumption
For most men, giving up regular alcohol consumption is quite difficult. As a result, the psycho-emotional state worsens and the potency becomes even worse. However, in most cases, it is possible to regain male strength. To do this, you need to understand that recovery will take some time.
To restore potency and fertility after prolonged alcohol consumption, it is recommended to follow these recommendations
- it is necessary to make an appointment with a urologist, who will, after taking the anamnesis and evaluating the test results, tell you how to proceed. In most cases, patients are prescribed medications;
- a man who has given up alcohol must lead a healthy lifestyle and sign up for a gym because physical activity contributes to testosterone production;
- you have to quit smoking;
- it is necessary to adjust the diet and reject harmful products. Walnuts, carrots, honey and seafood should be present in the diet every day as they increase potency.
"How embarrassing"
New York University scientist Joseph Palamar and his colleagues published a study according to which alcohol consumption is more likely to lead to unplanned sex, which makes you feel ashamed afterwards. The results were published in the journal.
Researchers went to nightclubs and dance festivals in New York City to question 679 participants about alcohol and drug use. Respondents were 18-25 years old.
It has been found that alcohol is more often associated with regret after unplanned sex than even drugs.
Change positions and rest
You can change positions during sex, which allows you to rest and reduce arousal at the same time. It is also for the diversification of sex, which makes it even brighter and more intense.
As orgasm approaches, you can simply take a break and lie down with your partner in bed, hugging and caressing your partner. She will be very comfortable, and you will gather strength and reduce excitement, which will allow you to rush into battle with new strength.
Masturbation or masturbation
Gone are the days when masturbating or masturbating, to anyone more comfortable, was embarrassing and condemned by the people around you. In the 21st century, science has proven that being naughty with your little friend not only harms her, but is, on the contrary, beneficial! The main thing in everything is to know when to stop and maintain balance.
So, one of the main reasons for fast ejaculation in men is the lack of sex in men for a long period of time. Therefore, in order not to miss a woman, it is better to perform the act of masturbation the day before sexual intercourse or just before it. This will extend the time of sex with a woman in a completely simple and pleasant way.
Also, constant masturbation will teach you how to manage your sex drive. In the process of masturbation, you can learn to recognize your feelings by increasing the pace, increasing the pressure on the head and the penis itself. All of these workouts will help you control the process even when you have sex with a woman.
Kegel exercises
Certain muscle groups are responsible for erection, ejaculation and orgasm. Therefore, experts have developed certain exercises to affect the desired muscles, to teach a man self-control during intercourse. The main emphasis is on pumping the pubococcygeal muscle.
There are two ways to find LK muscles:
- During urination, the man must stop the flow of urine several times. The muscle that will be involved during this action is the PC muscle.
- During a morning erection, a man must move his penis, tensing and relaxing the PC muscle.
Furthermore, a man should alternately strain and relax this muscle as often as possible during the day. You need to do the exercises for at least a month to achieve significant results. This can be done by first squeezing for 4-5 seconds and relaxing in the same amount of time, then squeezing and separating for 15-20 seconds and alternating with a short squeeze for a few seconds.